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AUG-31-10
15:39:8
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Forum: Serious Discussion for Christian Singles
RE: Why old men choose younger women?
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mainegal
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@ Aurora....
I agree as well, the older I get I also see that the youthfulness can be retained. However, sometimes "life" can knock a healthy, energetic, playful, intelligent, beautiful, (rather than older I'll use the words--->) more mature, woman right exactly flat on either her beautiful face or right on her fanny! OUCH!
Thats obviously where Humbleness can be overwhelming! I apparently lack the wellness and health part, *sigh*
I know as I am a renal cell cancer survivor and I can tell you it knocked me down HARD! I now have other health issues because of it. (incidently this also is a "catch" for some dishonest, mean, greedy, "wolf" in sheeps clothing, that may like to think I could be one foot in the grave!)I am not~ in fact I am more alive today then ever! =)
Anyway I do kinda like your idea of changing the focus from age to concepts the only problem I see, is men do not necessarily think like women do so while that might work for women I am not sold on the idea that it will work for men.
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AUG-31-10
9:10:1
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Forum: Serious Discussion for Christian Singles
RE: Why no response
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paperbrain
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Thanks for your feedback asiaticbabe, but I do understand why people don't respond. My point, was that it is only polite to let the person know you are not interested. Not only that, but it is the Christian thing to do as well.
paperbrain
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AUG-30-10
20:53:8
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Forum: Christian Singles Member Surveys
RE: Preparing for Jesus' Second Coming
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injunjoe
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wow! s h, your reply is deep and wonderful my friend:] thank you for your input.
i am thinking; Christ will come when the earth is ready, environmentally and politically, which i see taking shape, also, this is going to bring persecution, the climate that seems to make a people see the only way to end evil is to die to it as God the son did, to provide the evidence (not claims) needed to end the controversy, the lies about God running things in an arbitrary power-over way.
I am so with you that the simplicity escapes us!
With that written i must go now. Thanks again for the great post! i wish i had more time!
greg
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AUG-30-10
16:48:58
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Forum: Serious Discussion for Christian Singles
RE: Why old men choose younger women?
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Submitted Anonymously
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SO! Paperbrain, are you saying we have no choice in the matter? maybe I read your statement wrong, I beleive when we pray for God's help on this matter He will bring us, perhaps if it's His will into contact with someone for which is of His choosing but lets not forget our free will to make choices. God will guide, and yes there may even be incedents where He really pushes us into the choice He would like for us to choose, but the final say is ours because God gave us the right of choice.
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AUG-30-10
15:4:59
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Forum: Serious Discussion for Christian Singles
RE: Why old men choose younger women?
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AuroraLeigh
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Hi TXSmile,
I can sympathize with you about the societal value system that keeps "older" women on the margins. Have any ideas about what can be done about this? How to help extinguish the prejudices and promote a healthy and positive construct/s for older women? This would have to go well beyond saying they "are beautiful lovers," right?
Do we roll with the product lines of anti-wrinkle creams and hair treatments, supported as much by women as by men? Shun them? Support aging research?
Do we try less and trust God more? What would that trust look like? Doing nothing while we wait? Or might waiting indicate action?
One thing I have noticed is that there are certain women who retain a strong sense of youthfulness all through their lives, and there are some who are able to hike for miles after age 60, 70 and even 80; whereas there are many women in their twenties who don't do as well (because they haven't tried or haven't had the interest). The older I get, the more I see how youthfulness can be retained. Perhaps if we can move the focus from age to concepts like youthfulness, health, wellness, playfulness, intelligence, we would increase the likelihood of finding a good match and not feel that we had to accept the only single man left in our churches (the real advantage of dating sites). How do you see it? I welcome anyone's thoughts on this.
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